After asking random 12 people what it means to be labeled as any of the aforementioned, basically I learned that anyone who acts a certain way with one group of people, but acts differently around another; and/or anyone who is overly excited (thirsty) to show off what they have to make themselves seem more socially appealing; OR anyone who talks about someone behind their back and/or acts as though they are friends with the person they secretly disrespected.
Well. All I can say is THAT'S F-WORD-ED UP. Here's why:
1. Comfort Levels: You may not be as comfortable around one group of people as you are another. Everyone to a certain extent behaves differently around different people. This does not make you PHONY. 12/12 people I questioned said they are quiet around people who they aren't close with. So if I'm around you, and I don't know you to well: I'm gonna be a MOUSE, but if you catch me with people I know I'm gonna be an F-ing PARTY ANIMAL.
2. Is it soooo bad to want to fit in?? What people don't understand is the daily and unspoken struggle to fit in. Call me crazy or wrong when I say this, but everybody wants and tries to fit in, whether it's conscious or not. Or.. What if that person is just really excited and about they s-word and want to show off their pride and joy. When people brag about their children, they're not labeled as a stunnting... their labeled as proud parents.. Why the double standard?
3. EVERYBODY TALKS ABOUT PEOPLE BEHIND THEIR BACK. I don't even have to elaborate. Whether it's in depth gossip, laughing at someone's photos or clothes, discussing someone else's problems while they're not around. Does this make everyone Phony? No. Who cares. What if I'm thinking about someone and they're not around.. I have to wait for them so that I can discuss what I want to discuss?
In conclusion, either the ENTIRE F-WORD-ING WORLD IS FULL OF REAL FAKE PEOPLE or being "fake, phony or a stunna" is a part of being a REAL PERSON.
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